{"id":33397,"date":"2022-05-30T10:01:40","date_gmt":"2022-05-30T08:01:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/patronatosanvincenzo.it\/blog\/?p=33397"},"modified":"2022-05-30T10:19:25","modified_gmt":"2022-05-30T08:19:25","slug":"il-regalo-del-suo-dolore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/patronatosanvincenzo.it\/blog\/il-regalo-del-suo-dolore\/","title":{"rendered":"Il regalo del suo dolore"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Era arrivata al punto di non poterne pi\u00f9 ed era stata tentata di ascoltare chi la consigliava di dare un taglio al rapporto con un marito che le aveva reso impossibile la vita, ma qualcosa la tratteneva ogni volta: \u201c\u00c8 pur sempre il padre dei miei figli \u2013si giustificava- e poi anch\u2019io ho fatto i miei errori\u2026\u201d e di giustificazione in giustificazione i due percorrevano un altro tratto di vita insieme.<\/p>\n<p>Finch\u00e9 la donna aveva notato che lui stava diventando pi\u00f9 calmo, remissivo e docile\u2026ma la diagnosi del medico non lasciava speranze: \u201cSuo marito ha un grave morbo invalidante\u2026\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>L\u2019uomo \u00e8 morto un anno fa. Ma ha vissuto sette anni ininterrotti in casa sua, senza mai fare un giorno di ospedale neppure quando il covid19 infuriava. \u00c8 stato assistito giorno e notte da moglie e figli; e dalla badante solo quando gli impegni di lavoro erano improrogabili.<\/p>\n<p>Nei rari momenti di lucidit\u00e0 guardava la sua donna e gli occhi gli si riempivano di lacrime e dai suoi figli si lasciava fare tutto sorridendo, lui cos\u00ec intrattabile da sano. 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